“True Love”

“How can you say that love is true?” This is a question that should be answered by those people who are in love. Well, not really in love but those who experienced love. Everybody felt this feeling: being loved and to love. There are many examples of love: love for the family, love for god, love for your best friend, love for the country, love for the fellowmen and love for the opposite sex. But, what is true love and how can you say that the love you’re feeling is real?

True love for me is understanding and sacrificial. Understanding to the point that whatever happens to the relationship of yours (either you quarrel or something like that), you are ready to listen to the explanation of your partner and be ready to forgive if he/she does mistakes. Real love doesn’t long for power, it doesn’t want to hurt, doesn’t want to punish for mistakes; it’s self-sacrificing and ready to forgive over and over again. But it’s wrong to think that true love is always a suffering, it only means that you take a person as he or she is and don’t expect the one you love to be perfect. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. True love signifies the word “sacrifice”. It is not selfish but it makes sure that all things are at good system and though it hurts their feelings, they will do the right thing to do.

It’s said that two persons truly in love aren’t looking at each other but in the one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say nothing “this is yours and this is mine” and share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems and etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “I belong to you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy. True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a very special state of a soul. True love is a good experience! You’ll learn a lot from it!